Friday, December 14, 2012

FFF: Commands

I caught a quick video this week of Enoch eating and obeying/using commands.  In the video, you can see how he typically responds when I ask him to drink some milk, and you can see his version of asking for "more."   He learned the milk command about a month or so ago, but saying "more" has just happened in the past few weeks.  {And I should also note that he is not always this calm while eating.  While we strive for this type of behavior, sometimes it's a struggle... most notably in the evening when he's tired.}




For those wondering, this is what "more" should look like:



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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Enoch Live: pajamas all morning

point proven  ;)
Why my baby gets to stay in his pajamas all morning...

  • he's snuggly;
  • he's warm and comfortable for his first nap;
  • if he's rowdy while eating breakfast, he doesn't get applesauce on his good clothes;
  • and lastly, there's just not much cuter than a little boy in footie pajamas!


... although a naked little boy with a cloth diaper on is definitely a close runner-up... but in the winter time it's probably not wise to leave your babies naked for too long, no matter how cute they are.  ;)



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Monday, December 10, 2012

R2g: Lilias Trotter {Faithful Women & Their Extraordinary God}

I enjoyed reading about Lilias Trotter over the past week from Noel Piper's book, Faithful Women & Their Extraordinary God.  While I had never before heard of her, it seems that she lived a truly meaningful and faithful life for the Lord.

Here are a few of the highlights I picked out from this short biography of her life:

  • She chose to serve the Lord first and foremost and allowed her giftings (art) to be a means, not an end in itself.  This seemed like a hard decision for her, and I often find myself faced with similar decisions.  I love the way Noel summarizes this decision, "Much later, she realized even more strongly the importance of focusing on Jesus, rather than on all the good things he gives us"  (p. 46).
  • She was creative and full of new ideas in fulfilling her ministry to Muslims in Algeria.  She and her dear friend Blanche came up with numerous ways to meet and visit Muslim women.   They also traveled to desert outposts, where missionaries had not yet been and sought to send more missionaries there to follow-up with their work.  Additionally, Lilias was among the first to begin writing biblical material for Arab women, even though the vast majority were illiterate during her lifetime, because she knew the Lord would bring literacy and she wanted solid material for them to be able to study and learn from.  I appreciated her response when she was criticized for being so forward-thinking, "And do not let us feel 'it is all premature'.  Faith is generally premature; it deals with things 'not seen as yet'." (p. 53)
  • I also appreciated Noel's emphasis on how unlikely Lilias was to be a single, female missionary in Algeria.  She was 'older' before she began her missions work; she didn't know anyone in Algeria nor did she know the language (Arabic); she was physically frail due to her heart and required extended times of rest; she had received no formal training about being a missionary or living in a different culture; and, at that point in history the team of women were being pioneers in reaching Muslim women with the gospel of Jesus Christ.  And yet with all of these hurdles, Lilias was faithful and the Lord made a way and blessed her ministry for thirty-five years!!  That is so encouraging to me and reminds me of this passage from the Word:
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.  (2 Corinthians 12:9-10)




For those of you reading along with me, what aspects of Lilias' life stood out to you the most?  Were you encouraged?  Challenged?  Share you thoughts below with a comment!


I'll leave you with a piece of her artwork as well as a challenging quote:


Take heed to the ministry which thou has received in the Lord that thou fulfill it. (p. 63)
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Friday, December 7, 2012

FFF: A Few Highlights from 12-13 Months

I just realized that I haven't posted an "update" about Enoch's development lately.  :/  So sorry!   And so to the best of my ability, here's some of what has happened over the past 2 months.

Movement- Enoch is crawling everywhere these days and can climb over obstacles with little problem.  He loves walking along objects (like couches, cabinets, etc.), with his walker, or while holding onto Hugh's pants.  Although he can stand by himself for a few seconds, he's not confident yet that he wants to walk by himself.

Teeth- Enoch worked in his bottom left molar over these past two months, putting him up to 9 teeth!  Although it took such a long time for his molar to work in, he really likes using it now for chewing.  :)  And in my opinion, we only had a few days of teething-related crabbiness, so I was thankful for that!

Skills- Enoch can tell you what a puppy and a rhinoceros say, and now he can also (usually) point to his head, belly, and ears on command.  He is still learning nose, mouth, eyes, and the rest.  He loves to clap his hands, wave, and blow kisses on command {unless we are in public, and then he only does it when no one is looking, like when we are in the parking lot, haha!}.  He also just learned how to use his hands to say "more" while eating (we ask him to use his hands rather than whining or hitting the high chair).   Little Man has also just become good at letting us brush his teeth {which used to be such a struggle}, and he has just figured out how light switches work and always reaches for them when we enter and leave rooms.


Obedience- Little Guy does pretty well obeying commands that he understands (like come here, share, drink some milk, no, don't touch, etc.).  A few commands that we are working on right now (meaning he isn't great at obeying them yet) are not opening cabinets, not hitting, not throwing, and not complaining (aka: whining).   I am continually amazed at how quickly Enoch learns these commands {smart little cookie}, but I am also quickly reminded with each new command that we start learning that his will is so strong.  Right now, it isn't uncommon for him to commit an offense (one that he knows is wrong) and immediately look up at me or Hugh to see if he's going to get in trouble for it.  We've had to be on our toes about being consistent at disciplining him, but I can already look back a few months and see the progress that he is making with obeying Mama and Daddy.  {As a side note so that I can remember next time around, we began teaching obedience with "no" around the time Enoch learned to crawl.}

Eating- First, I should say that Enoch is up to 24 lbs {and quite barrel-chested, in our opinion}!!!   We are SO thankful that the Lord answered our prayers and gave him growth.  :)  On most days, Enoch will nurse 4 times, drink 2 (7 oz ea) cups of milk (via straw), and eat three meals with one or two small snacks (but the snacking is irregular and he doesn't require it).  Breakfast is always applesauce mixed with yogurt {usually Hugh eats breakfast with him}.  Lunch is always a cup of milk, a grain (usually whole wheat bread), a veggie, and a fruit.  Dinner is usually the same as lunch except that sometimes he gets extra protein from cheese, beans, or meat.  And if I'm having something like chicken noodle soup or spaghetti, he usually eats that in place of the veggie/grain.  His favorite foods are: bananas, string cheese, cheerios, and graham crackers.   He has also just learned how to hold a long piece of food (like string cheese) in his hand and take bites (rather than shoving it all in his mouth at the same time).




This was during the sleep-deprived
period and he would just conk out randomly.
This was during family worship, right
before nap time.
Sleep- Little Guy is still taking 2 naps a day, and he generally sleeps from 6 or 6:30 pm until 5:30 or 6 am.  At around 12 mos, a series of events (2 out-of-state trips and learning to pull up in the crib) caused his sleep to become "off" to say the least.  He would go to bed pretty well, but his naps were 30 minutes long (usually they're 1-1.5 hrs, and 30 min simply doesn't restore or reset our little guy) and he was waking up at 3 or 3:30 every morning.  At first, we weren't sure what to do or even what was wrong, but we finally started putting everything together and realized that he was suffering from sleep deprivation and it was only causing him to become more sleep deprived.  So we went through 3-4 weeks of re-training his sleep habits and helping him catch-up on the sleep he had been lacking.  Although I'm sure we didn't do everything right, we did eventually help him get back to his normal sleep routine, which we are so thankful for!  {When Enoch was little, we learned a lot from Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Marc Weissbluth, and it has really helped us understand baby's sleep habits and needs.  So that's what we looked to for some help when this sleep issue reared it's head.}

Likes- wrestling with Daddy, dog watching, reading books, stacking rings, putting objects in other objects, playing "where's the baby", getting out of the house & seeing people, being tickled (see video below), sorting tupperware, swinging

Dislikes- not getting his way {of course}, having to wait to nurse






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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Enoch Live: standing drill

When Coach got home tonight, he and his little guy had some fun practicing standing.  We were pretty surprised at how long Enoch could stand on his own a few times...  So I caught some of it on camera since I thought you all might enjoy seeing a glimpse into this phase of Little Man learning to walk.  :)



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Monday, December 3, 2012

R2g: Sarah Edwards {Faithful Women & Their Extraordinary God}

I really enjoyed this chapter on Sarah Edwards, the theologian Jonathan Edwards' wife.  For me, she is the most well-known woman of the five women that Noel Piper portrays in her biographical book, Faithful Women & Their Extraordinary God, so I was excited to learn more about her.

Overall, I appreciated the thoughtful way that Noel laid out this biography of Sarah's life.  First, she set the story well by explaining many of the hardships that living in colonial America in the early 1700s brought to Sarah's everyday life.  Noel also seemed to dig deep into many different resources to find gems of information about Sarah and her family that gave a fuller picture of their lives, which was necessary since Sarah herself didn't keep a journal.  In addition, I loved the way Noel drew some of her own take-aways at the end of the chapter, noting how she had related to Sarah and how the story of Sarah's life had touched her.

After having read through this chapter a few different times now, I have tried to narrow the number of things that I specifically gleaned from Sarah's life.  For me, personally, Sarah's life encouraged me to continue seeking to be faithful in the mundane parts of my life {Noel's subtitle for this chapter was "Faithful in the Mundane"}.   Specifically, there were a three areas of Sarah's life that she excelled at that were encouraging to me: faithful wife, faithful mother, faithful hostess.

These three areas are ones that I am currently in the midst of and usually slightly overwhelmed by, and I don't even live with the hardships of that era!  I was so encouraged by the way that Sarah shaped her daily life around her husband's calling.  Such a humble attitude clearly placed him and his needs above her own, which is clearly the attitude that we are called to in Philippians 2.  This has made me stop and think about ways that I can do this as well with Hugh.

I was also encouraged by Sarah's commitment as a mother to raising her children to know and fear the Lord.  It seemed that she was continually in prayer for her children and that her means of discipline allowed her children to mature in obedience and personality.  The list of contributions that the Edwards' family had made to society (such as 80 holders of public office, 66 physicians, 100 lawyers, etc.) astounded me and only reinforced how the faithfulness of one family in raising their children well can reach far into the future (p. 22).

Additionally, Sarah's role as a hostess gave me a good perspective on a few important characteristics I'd like to mimic.  First, she was caring and noted well the personalities of those who stayed with her.  She also seemed to be quite welcoming and hospitable, as her home was "well known, busy, and praised" (p. 25).  And it seems that this hospitality only highlighted (rather than detracted from) her love for her husband and children.  Although hospitality is not my strongest gifting, I do desire to become better at it because we aspire to have a very open and welcoming home.  Hugh and I have experienced the blessing of such families/homes personally, and we feel that it is one of the best ways of living out our faith in Christ within the context of community.  This was impressed upon me even more by some of the testimonies of how the Edwards family had loved those staying with them and how even the smallest of conversations had impacted those visitors' lives in great ways.


Well, that's all of my thoughts.  For those of you who read along with me, how were you encouraged by Sarah Edwards' life?   Do you find yourself struggling to be faithful with specific "mundane" things in your life?  Post a comment below and share your thoughts!

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Preparing for Christmas


I am so excited that we are now into December!  Do you know why?  Christmas is coming!!  And as of this past Sunday, our family has begun preparing for Christmas by reading Advent readings.

I would say that for me personally, the advent readings are crucial in preparing my heart to celebrate Christ during the Christmas season.  Having a daily passage that orients me toward Dec. 25th being the day of Christ's birth helps me have the right focus throughout each day leading up to the 25th.  There are many Advent reading plans available on-line and in print, but this year I will be using this free ebook from Desiring God called Good News of Great Joy.  (click the link to download it for yourself)  I first heard about the release of this ebook from this blog post, and they give a good summary of it at both of the above links.


Having skimmed the ebook once now and read a few of the daily readings, it seems rather helpful and quite do-able.  There is a daily scripture reading as well as a short devotional to go along with it.  It's short enough to accommodate the busiest of schedules but also thoughtful enough to provide much fodder for meditation and further reading/study.  Here's an excerpt about the purpose of this Advent ebook:

What I want most for Christmas this year is to join you (and many others) in seeing Christ in all his fullness and that we together be able to love what we see with a love far beyond our own half-hearted human capacities. This is our goal in these Advent devotionals. We want together to see and savor this Jesus whose first “advent” (coming) we celebrate, and whose second advent we anticipate.   (page vi)

Whether you're an avid Advent reader or have never considered doing Advent readings, I'd like to invite you to join us in reading through this ebook as we prepare our hearts for Christmas.   We are only 2 days into the advent readings, so there is plenty of time to catch up and benefit from this practice!!

And if you're wondering what Advent means or why many Christians celebrate it, download the ebook and simply read the Preface.  I hadn't ever heard of Advent until a few years ago, so don't feel dumb if this is the first time you've heard the word!!    :)

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